Food:
The
staple food of the area is wheat, rice and pulses.
Inferior grains are not generally eaten. Meat is
frequently eaten specially in the urban towns.
Wheat (flour) is baked in the from of chapattis on an
iron plate placed on the fire heart. Pulses and
vegetables are quite common items of diet. Spices, salts
and Ghee (butter oil) are added to them for flavor and
taste. The chief meals are taken just before mid-day and
in the evening before sun set but city folks generally
have three meals.
Dress:
The local dress consists of a Kurta without collar
covered by a waist-coat or Kurti and a loose loin cloth
or trousers. A long piece of cloth called Chaddar is
usually thrown over the shoulders. Achkan and Sherwani
are worn on formal occasions by most people, but quite a
large number of Muhajirs (refugees) wear these as normal
dress. In the villages, a Kurta with Tehband (sheet
round of legs) and Safa on shoulders is the most common
dress. The Pagri still carries a sign of respectability
and some people in the cities while most people in the
villages have this as the sole head-dress. The women’s
clothes are generally more colorful with popular shades
of red and yellow. Women clothing consists of Shalwar,
Kamiz and Dopatta or Chaddar to cover their heads and
upper part of the body. Phulkari is a silk embroidered
shawl often fancied by the rural women-folks. Saree is
only worn by women in towns and cities on formal
occasions. The most common footwear for men in the
villages is shoes of rough leather usually made by the
village shoemaker. Boots are worn by those living in the
cities and towns while women folk-wear sandal or
slippers. Purdah is very common amongst the lower,
middle and upper middle class women but rare amongst
women of upper class.
Betrothals/Marriages:
Betrothal always precedes a marriage. The proposal is
initiated by near relative of the boy or girl and the
women of both sides take leading role in finalizing the
proposal. The wedding may take place any time after the
betrothal. Marriages between the same section of tribe
are customary but inter- marriage between people of
different tribes and castes in cities and towns is
becoming more frequent. The usual age at marriage for
boys is 18 to 20 years and that for girls is 16 to 20
years. On the wedding day, the relatives and friends of
the boy assemble and proceed in procession to the girl’s
house. The marriage procession is generally headed by
musical band. The marriage party is received by the
relatives and friends of the parents of the girl. The
party is then entertained. Thereafter the Nikah
(wed-lock) ceremony is performed by the Nikah Registrar
and a feast is given to the marriage procession. Alms
are distributed to Fakirs (beggars) and village mueens
are fed. At the end, the groom with the bride are put
into a Doli (palanquin) and taken away to the groom
house. The bride stays in her new house for a couple
of days and then returns to her father’s house. This
coming home of the bride is called Muklawa.